Whether anyone cares is irrelevant. Caring doesn’t pay rent or keep you from starving. And if you spend your energy begging your imaginary friend to magically make things happen for you, as if that is somehow a valid solution, then you will only find disappointment and lots of wasted time.
Your existence does not occur expressly for the purpose of others’ convenience and approval.
Your existence is yours to use, for whatever purpose you so choose, whether anyone else likes it or agrees or approves, or not.
You must learn to take control of yourself, or you will continue to be used by those who have the ability to impose their will upon you.
The “point to exist,” is that you are already existing. You are, now, and you will not be again… and no matter what you do, your life will end, someday, whether sooner or later, whether you want it or not. So, since you already have this existence, cannot stop it from ending, and cannot replenish the time that slips away unused… you should focus on using your time and energy to manifest events that you want to experience, because it is almost certain that you will not get what you want out of life, if you do not make it happen yourself.
Whatever it is you want to change, you have to put effort into it, in order to have any chance of changing it. If you do nothing, everything you dislike will remain as it is.
The problem isn’t about whether anyone else cares that you exist; the problem is that YOU don’t. And if you aren’t really interested in existing, how can you then motivate yourself to pursue something you don’t really want?
The only good way, is to decide you want something, and to go after it with everything you’ve got, while you’ve got a life to spend on living for something that matters to You… even if everyone else thinks that’s stupid or wrong, even if no one else gives a shit that you exist.
Your life isn’t about anyone else but You. Decide to go live it, while you still can.
But it’s also perfectly understandable that you’ll need some recovery time to gather yourself from such a difficult and damaging string of defeats. But you need to stop playing other people’s games, whose rules are built to control and exploit you, not to allow you to win. Learn to value investment in yourself. Seek the truth. Learn to have a justifiable and defensible opinion. Learn to see what’s wrong, as early and far away as possible, in order to maximize your chance to mitigate problems, or even avoid them entirely.
Your existence does not occur expressly for the purpose of others’ convenience and approval.
Your existence is yours to use, for whatever purpose you so choose, whether anyone else likes it or agrees or approves, or not.
You must learn to take control of yourself, or you will continue to be used by those who have the ability to impose their will upon you.
The “point to exist,” is that you are already existing. You are, now, and you will not be again… and no matter what you do, your life will end, someday, whether sooner or later, whether you want it or not. So, since you already have this existence, cannot stop it from ending, and cannot replenish the time that slips away unused… you should focus on using your time and energy to manifest events that you want to experience, because it is almost certain that you will not get what you want out of life, if you do not make it happen yourself.
Whatever it is you want to change, you have to put effort into it, in order to have any chance of changing it. If you do nothing, everything you dislike will remain as it is.
The problem isn’t about whether anyone else cares that you exist; the problem is that YOU don’t. And if you aren’t really interested in existing, how can you then motivate yourself to pursue something you don’t really want?
The only good way, is to decide you want something, and to go after it with everything you’ve got, while you’ve got a life to spend on living for something that matters to You… even if everyone else thinks that’s stupid or wrong, even if no one else gives a shit that you exist.
Your life isn’t about anyone else but You. Decide to go live it, while you still can.
But it’s also perfectly understandable that you’ll need some recovery time to gather yourself from such a difficult and damaging string of defeats. But you need to stop playing other people’s games, whose rules are built to control and exploit you, not to allow you to win. Learn to value investment in yourself. Seek the truth. Learn to have a justifiable and defensible opinion. Learn to see what’s wrong, as early and far away as possible, in order to maximize your chance to mitigate problems, or even avoid them entirely.